Frederick 

Henry 

Sones

 

1871-1934 

 

There are many people in past years who have served the community and are often forgotten when they have gone. They are rarely remembered in public places, except perhaps the odd street name, yet we still benefit from the work they did. Such a man was Frederick Henry Sones who died on Friday 13th April 1934 at the age of 62. 


Typical of the tributes was this from the Stamford Mercury newspaper: "It is with profound regret that we record his death because not only Bourne, but the country of Kesteven has lost a gentleman with a fine public record. He was a man of many parts and unbounded energy who devoted a large portion of his time to public service and was identified with innumerable organisations throughout a wide area."


Mr Sones was a local man who was born in the town on 13th December 1871. He became a qualified accountant who spent every spare moment on his public work for the church and the community and his deep and abiding interest in education was instrumental in the founding of the present Bourne Grammar School in September 1920. His most prominent work was in connection with Kesteven County Council and Bourne Urban District Council, being a member of both authorities. In fact, he had been re-elected for a further period of three years on the county council only a month before his death. 


For almost thirty years, Mr Sones acted as the Collector of Rates for Bourne UDC until he resigned the post in 1929 when he was elected a member of the authority. His experience in accountancy and money matters was then utilised by the committees dealing with financing and rating, and gas and water, and he was also one of the council's representatives on the local ambulance committee. Since 1921, he had been the income tax collector for the urban district, succeeding Mr Arthur Wall. He was also secretary of the General Johnson Lodge of the Manchester Unity of Oddfellows and had been secretary of the Bourne and District Liberal Club since its formation in 1903. For many years too, he had been secretary of the Rutland and Stamford Divisional Liberal Association and had acted as agent during a number of local and Parliamentary elections as well as assisting with similar work in neighbouring constituencies. He was one of the representatives of the Bourne Friendly Societies Joint Committee on the Bourne United Charities and was a past chairman of the Charity Trustees. Frequently, he was one of the deputation on the trustees to the Charity Commissioners and indeed, his last public act was in connection with this body because on the Thursday and Friday prior to his admission to hospital, he had visited the Leytonstone Estate in London with other members of the Bourne trustees. 


At the time of his death, he was vice chairman of the Higher Education Committee on Kesteven County Council, having played a prominent role in educational matters for Bourne. He was also a manager of the council school in the town and was appointed county council visitor to the schools both in Bourne and Dyke. During the years following the First World War from 1914-18, he was an energetic worker for the establishment of Bourne Grammar School and was subsequently a governor and then vice-chairman of the governors, a position he held until his death.

Mr Sones was also a member of the North Fen and Dyke Fen Drainage Board, a director and chairman of the Bourne Corn Exchange Company, a member of the South Kesteven Guardians Committee and county council representative on the Rauceby Mental Hospital Visiting Committee. During the Great War he was a member of the Local Defence Volunteers, an early version of the Home Guard, and he also served at the Voluntary Aid Detachment Hospital that was established in the Vestry Hall and adjoining National School in North Street where wounded soldiers brought home from the trenches were sent to convalesce. His other offices included that of local district secretary of the Royal Oak Benefit Society and in 1931, he was elected to serve on their general committee while in June 1933, he became vice president and in accordance with the general custom, would have succeeded to the presidency later in 1934, which was the highest honour the society could bestow. He was a member of the Volunteer Training Corps and one of the local secretaries organising celebrations for the coronation of King George in 1911, an original member of the Bourne Juvenile Employment Committee formed in 1922 and from 1916 he was assistant secretary of the National Association of Corn and Agricultural Merchants.

I
n the year 1919-20, when over £700 was raised for the new wing of the Butterfield Hospital in Bourne as a memorial to those who fell in the war, Mr Sones was honorary secretary to the Bourne Permanent Peace Fund. He was also a member of the executive committee when Bourne made a special effort at the time of the building of the War Memorial Hospital at Peterborough and was a prime fund raiser to help with the local hospital at Bourne.

Despite these wide ranging activities, Mr Sones was also a freelance journalist and the Bourne correspondent for both the Stamford Mercury and the Grantham Journal, contributing weekly news reports to both publications as well as providing a regular service of the more important news items to two London news agencies, the Press Association and Central News and to a large number of provincial newspapers in the Midlands including the Yorkshire Post and the Sheffield Telegraph. He was also a proficient shorthand writer and took the official transcripts at the Kesteven Quarter Sessions which then alternated between Sleaford, Bourne and Stamford. He also had a spell as a businessman and for ten years was a partner in the firm of Messrs Tolly, McCann and Company, feather merchants of Billingborough.

 

The former Congregational Church in Eastgate, now the United Reformed Church, to which Frederick Sones devoted 46 years of his life, as Sunday School teacher and later superintendent, and fulfilling many other offices. When he died, the church remembered his work at a memorial service attended by a packed congregation

 

But above all, Mr Sones was a devout congregationalist and had maintained a lifelong connection with the church and Sunday School in Eastgate, being a former church secretary and was a deacon at the time of his death. For some 46 years, he had been a Sunday School teacher and later superintendent of the school as well as being instrumental in organising annual collections for the Claremont Mission in London, the last of which took place the day before his funeral. He was a former president of the Bourne and District Free Church Council and also of the Lincolnshire County Congregational Union and the year before his death, he had been elected a life member on the executive of the county union. 


His death was unexpected. Early in 1934, he returned to his home at Rutland Cottage No 1 North Road from a trip to London with the trustees of the United Charities, and noticed that his right foot had swollen where a sprig from the sole of his shoe had punctured the flesh. He was already suffering from diabetes and the wound turned gangrenous and blood poisoning set in and on Tuesday 10th April, he was rushed to Peterborough War Memorial Hospital. His condition was so serious that an immediate operation for the amputation of the leg was necessitated the same afternoon but he failed to rally and died three days later. He left a widow, Lizzie, who died on 18th November 1953 at the age of 83, and a family of three sons and two daughters. Their youngest son, Flight-Sergeant Frederick Ryland "Roy" Sones, a bomb navigator with the Royal Air Force, died on 4th June 1943 while on active service in India where his plane crashed on take off.
 

The funeral service was held at the Congregational Church on Monday 16th April 1934, conducted by the minister, the Rev Denis Brown, followed by interment at the town cemetery and the following Sunday afternoon, a memorial service was also held after the church deacons had decided that the scholars of the Sunday School, with whom Mr Sones had a lifelong connection, should have the opportunity of paying their last respects to his memory.

 

The minister presided and a number of old scholars and friends attended the service when all stood in silence for one minute as a token of remembrance and respect. Mr Brown said: "His friendship was such that one was not in his company long before one felt one had known him all ones life. One of his happiest joys was in service and to see the scholars happy. He had the heart of a child and was never happier than when he saw the children happy."

John R Arnold

 

The Sunday School's joint honorary secretary Mr John Robert Arnold gave the address in which he remembered both the work and warm personality of Mr Sones during a moving euology in which he said: 

 

"It is very easy on occasions like this to give a one-sided picture and to speak of 'the things that are lovely'. I declare this afternoon, in this tribute to the memory of Mr Sones, those things which are true. It is becoming commonplace to say 'we have lost a friend'. How many societies have been saying that in the last few days? How many more, in their hearts, are saying as individuals 'we have lost a friend'. I personally feel, and without a shadow of doubt, that we can say: this school has lost a friend - and one of the best.
"I recall an association in the work of this Sunday School for 35 years as a fellow teacher, and before that as a scholar in his class. During all those years, our brother was continually seeking out ways and means whereby this school might retain its vitality, increase its usefulness and be the means of extending the Kingdom of God in this corner of the vineyard. Within a few weeks, when the news of his passing has reached the lands across the seas, old scholars will be joining with us in our expression of regret at his passing. We were conscious on Monday last how widespread was the esteem in which he was held, by the presence of many friends, fellow teachers and workers of years ago, from far and near. His activities were many and varied. Why did he seek representation on so many public bodies? The answer is surely, that deep down in his heart was this thought: 'If I can secure entrance to that society or body, I may be able to use my influence in helping someone.'
"Many in this town can bear witness to this. He was always ready to help anyone, especially young people, who appealed to him. One thing is certain: it was not done to gain popularity. This was the last thing he sought. We all know how, when once he had decided upon a certain course of action, nothing would deter him from pursuing what he believed to be the best course. How often could he have gone up in public favour if only he had lowered his flag and put his ideals on one side? We did not always agree with his aims, nor with the methods he adopted, but let it be said in sincerity: "He honestly pursued what he felt was in the public interest or what was for the good of some one individual with no thought of self aggrandisement. 
"But I wanted to speak particularly of his work in the Sunday School, the place and cause that held such a warm place in his heart. It was 1927 that he was presented with the diploma of the National Sunday School Union for long service. His period of service as trustee, treasurer, teacher or superintendent extended over 39 years; thus at the time of his death, he had 46 years of service. What a day that was to him and many more. No less than 13 teachers received diplomas for long service. And then in 1918, he was appointed superintendent, a position held by his father in former years, and during the time that Mr T W Mays was secretary, how much secretarial work Mr Sones did owing to the fact that Mr Mays was such a busy man and often away on business.
"One recalls his activities in connection with the May Day winter treat anniversary. I can see him now, in his office coat, here, there, everywhere, on what was for years a joke - his old cycle. If one wanted to find him, well, look for a cycle of uncertain age as far as appearance went. How we teased him about his fondness for a cup of tea, not limited to one. 
"What a delight it was when a re-union was arranged for old scholars some years ago. From those services came the gifts which made the purchase of the new banner possible. But what shall be said of his work in connection with the building of this Sunday School? Cramped for want of space in the old school, with an ever increasing number of scholars, what a joy to him and many others when in 1900 the school was opened at a cost of £1,050 it was always with a feeling of pride that he referred to the schoolroom as one of the finest in the Congregational Churches of Lincolnshire. When the role of scholars reached 320, his heart rejoiced.
"Now he has passed on, leaving behind a legacy of faithful service to God and his fellow man, we shall remember him down here in Eastgate by what he has done, for his faithfulness and regularity for 46 years. Service such as he rendered cannot be measured. Whilst we regret his passing and feel a keen sense of loss, we shall remember him with joy and gladness by reason of the service he gave so freely."

 

See also     Reg Sones     Kath Cox     The United Reformed Church

 

For a history of Rutland Cottage see Thomas Hinson

 

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