A REMARKABLE DOCUMENT describing
life in Bourne a hundred years ago has been uncovered by the family of a former
church minister. It was written by his daughter before she died and presents an
evocative picture of the town and its people and particularly of life during the
early years of the 20th century.
In the summer of 1890, the Rev Thomas Hughes Parker arrived in Bourne to become
minister of the Congregational Church in Eastgate [now the United Reformed
Church] at a stipend of £110 a year and moved with his wife, Emma Hester Parker,
into a house provided by the church at No 2 Springfield Villas, North Road. Five
years later, Mrs Parker gave birth to a daughter, also Emma Hester, but sadly
died three weeks later, most probably from puerperal fever, a condition known at
the time as childbed fever. She was 29.
It was a traumatic time for the family and Mrs Parker was buried in the town
cemetery on 4th July 1895 where a headstone marks her grave. Baby Emma, who
became known to the family as Emmie, was cared for by her father’s sister,
referred to as Auntie Maggie, until he was married for a second time to Miss
Ethel Green Branston who was one of his congregation and a member of a well
known Bourne family but the relationship with her stepmother was not good
although it improved in later years. The family moved to other houses provided
by the church until 1908 when Mr Parker was offered the pastorate of the New
Chapel at Horwich, near Bolton, Lancashire, and the family moved north.
After schooling, Emma went Homerton College, Cambridge, for teacher training
before marrying John Taylor, who worked in the weaving trade, and they had six
children, four girls and two boys. Emma returned to Bourne several times, once
on a day trip while on a seaside holiday to Hunstanton, Norfolk, after her
father’s funeral in 1946, and again when she was invited to open a bazaar at the
Congregational Church in Eastgate, a gesture in memory of her father’s time
there.
In 1974, then aged 78, she decided to write down her memories of Bourne for the
benefit of her children and she died at Bolton two years later, aged 80. The
60-page manuscript, neatly hand written on A4 lined paper, has been in the
possession of family members ever since but unknown to some of them and earlier
this year, her son Ken Taylor, then aged 89, was given a copy to read for the
first time. He realised that it would be of interest to the people of Bourne
and, through several intermediaries, it was passed to me. I have spent some time
researching and editing the manuscript and my archive of old photographs has
been particularly valuable in illustrating the Bourne that Emma knew and writes
about with such love and affection.
An old photograph of the Congregational Church in Eastgate, for instance, also
shows some of the familiar places mentioned, Queen’s Bridge, Hinson’s bread and
sweet shop and Notley’s Mill, and perhaps one of the little girls wearing a
pinafore and standing on the bank in the foreground of the picture may well be
Emma because this picture was taken around 1905.
Photographs from the family album show Emma and her father in later life. Mr
Parker remained as minister at Horwich for 15 years, retiring in March 1923 to
West Bridgford, Nottinghamshire, where he died on 20th August 1946, aged 82,
although Ethel survived him by 13 years and died on 10th February 1959, aged 83.
They are buried beside each other in a double grave at the town cemetery in
South Road, Bourne. Emma remained at Horwich where she died on 8th March 1976
and is buried in the graveyard adjoining New Chapel which contains a memorial
plaque recording her life.
Her early years in Bourne between 1895 and 1908 are recorded in meticulous and
loving detail and tell of its people and the places she knew, the houses where
they lived in North Road, Eastgate and Coggles Causeway, the activities at the
church where they worshipped and attendance at the Stamford House School in West
Road where a fellow pupil was Raymond Mays who was to become an international
racing driver and designer and founder of the BRM. Emma also tells of the joy of
growing up and the dawn of adolescence, the trauma of childhood illnesses, a
broken arm treated at the Butterfield Hospital, of having her tonsils removed in
an operation at home on the dining room table performed by Dr John Galletly,
senior, of school concerts, children’s games, magic lantern shows and firework
displays with friends at the Red Hall, learning to play the piano and of
gathering primroses and picnics in Bourne Wood.
There are also memories of a Bourne long gone when the streets were traffic free
and the only activity on a Sunday morning was the sight of the great and the
good walking to church while the afternoons for children were spent at Sunday
School which was attended by hundreds of boys and girls. Emma also writes with
some emotion about her father’s second marriage and her new mother, Ethel
Branston, often feeling unloved, rejected and unwanted, but eventually
reconciled with her stepmother who became devoted to her father in their later
years.
I have printed out the finished memoirs in book form and a copy has been lodged
in the reference section of the public library in South Street if anyone wishes
to read it, providing a detailed and colourful account of life in Bourne a
century ago. |